The loveliness of life is not defined by how we label something. The sheer manifestation of life holds its true beauty. However, we see or think something and within seconds the mind will want to define it. Moreover, this limits any chance of us seeing what is blooming beyond the superficialities of any thought, person or thing. The total grace of your existence is here for you to acknowledge. It is life energy and it is flowing through you.
Therefore, it is ambiguous why we restrict our relationship with life by asking unnecessary questions. Is this not true for any partnership, especially the intimacy of two people in love? This is because too many questions and definitions are not beneficial. The wish in a true interrelationship is to give and receive. This nurtures balance and harmony between two people. Furthermore, equilibrium is the ultimate desire in any interconnection. We can call this the loveliness of loving.
Loveliness of Living
What if you were to question your partner regarding everything he or she does in each moment? Any hope of true love and trust would be shattered by this behavior. This is, unfortunately, experienced by many people due to them living from a state of being that is mind oriented. Nevertheless, many people have met someone or observed something from a dimension outside of the mind.
This is to say that you turn around in a crowded bus and see someone. Sky-rockets explode and you have a strong desire to meet this person. The feeling that is consuming is indescribable. The wish to be with this individual has nothing to do with the processes of the mind. You simply know that this man or woman is the totality. This is similar to truly experiencing life because it is the loveliness of living.
What would you say if I were to suggest that this loveliness that we are discussing is always available as an energy source? The manner by which you experience life and love, however, depends on your point of focus. Mind oriented focus is always problematic and is only helpful for practical purposes. You are becoming more and more conscious of how to use the mind; therefore do not let it overshadow the pure bliss of simply living and loving.